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CONTENTS
Acknowledgments .............................................................xi
Introduction......................................................................xiii

CHAPTER ONE
Letting Go
Roots and Wings Marisa Catalina Casey...................................3
Thinking About the Birth Mother Anonymous............................11
Dear Birth Mother Joy Murphy ................................................15
Having Andrew Andrea Mackowitz ............................................20
The Intertwining of Lives: An Adoption Story of Memory, Journey
and Acceptance
Ann Cohen, Donna Severy Laffan and Debbi R. Swanstrom
....................25
You Loved Me Enough Alex..........................................................39

CHAPTER TWO
Facing Loss and Gaining Hope
Journey of Destiny Keriann Kimball...........................................43
Miracle in Miami Jessica Varn ..................................................49
The Switcheroo Audrey Keller....................................................53
God's Plan: Bringing Home Liliana Christie Patrick Billings ............60
The Weight of the Wait: And Then There Was Josie
Ana Douglass.........................................................................67
Saving Helena Maria Addison....................................................71
Demystifying the Adoption Option Nancy Hanner..........................78
Grace Lee Ashworth .................................................................81

CHAPTER THREE
Embracing Our Differences
The Color of Skin Deborah Egan.................................................89
Fitting In Michael Kilmurray .......................................................93
Navel Gazing Lindsay Davies......................................................99
Success Story Anonymous ........................................................105
A Father's Calling Linda Matchan.................................................109

CHAPTER FOUR
Adopting the Older Child
Elya and Elena Gaynor Ellis.........................................................119
Jadra's Story: Miracles Do Happen! Meredith Browning Bishop ..........123
A Gift of Life Lynda Fielstein........................................................130
Living the Fantasy Cathy Rogerson...............................................134
Of Signs and Wonders Elizabeth B. McGowin..................................138
Mya Papu Denise Brown ............................................................145
Welcome Home, My Daughter Rosemary Zibart ............................150

CHAPTER FIVE
Embarking on the Lone Journey
To Lay Open One's Heart Rita Cheresnowsky...............................157
Sadie and Me Myra Alperson......................................................163
My Choice Anne Unterkoefler .....................................................168
Practically Perfect Barbara Schrier...............................................175
A Life Interrupted Sarah Stangle.................................................179

CHAPTER SIX
Experiencing Fatherhood
E-Mails from Ekaterinburg Walter Anderson.................................189
From Kolomna, with Love John 0'Neill.........................................198
The Miracle Joel Barrera...........................................................203
Waiting for Mei Mei Bruce Covey ...............................................206
Bringing Home Sara Howard Cooper...........................................209
A Letter to My Son on His Twenty-Seventh Birthday
Dr. Timothy Johnson ................................................................212
A Letter to My Daughter Larry Kessler ........................................219

CHAPTER SEVEN
Becoming Brothers and Sisters
The Big Decision Matt Casey ....................................................225
My Baby Sister and Me Stephen Phillip Policoff..............................229
Double Blessing Lorraine Schuft.................................................234
The Rhythm of Five Judy Collins................................................238
The Three-Part Fairy Tale Monica, Paola and Alice Yerxa.................242
Twin Peaks Marianne Greeno ....................................................246
Preparing for Number Two Margaret Ronan Stack .........................251

CHAPTER EIGHT
Grandparenting an Adopted Child
Grandma Extraordinaire Dale Azimow Wood..................................257
Waiting for Katherine Kae Bowes ...............................................262
What Is Meant to Be Is Meant to Be:
One Grandmother's Story Joanne Cooper ....................................264
Like Being Young Again Grandma Mary ......................................268

CHAPTER NINE
Encountering Shadows of the Past
Shadows of Adoption Stephen K. Mackowitz...................................275
A Story for Ancient Moon Adam Schwartz......................................282
Not for Me Jennifer M. Kimball.....................................................289
Interpreting Lucy Marilyn Sides ..................................................293
Our Story Donna Marie Harris......................................................295
The Gift of Two Perspectives Brenda M. Cotter...............................300
Encounters on the Path Jonathan Scott.........................................304

About the Alliance for Children Foundation..................................309

 

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“I consider the navel to be an indentity-marking scar that we all bear, though we do not consider it as such. The odd whorl of knotted tissue at our center we so sweetly call the belly button marks the end of absolute intimacy and the beginnings of selfhood. The expression ‘navel-gazing’ means colloquially an obsession with the self. Young children are blessedly free from such introspection. Yet there comes a time when the child will, and must, discover her origins.”

- Page 101, Navel Gazing by Lindsay Davies

 

 

 

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